How would you want to respond if you were the primary person in each situation?

• A forty-year-old male colleague tells you of his on-going extramarital affair. He is very physically and verbally affectionate with his wife when she comes into the office.

• Your assistant has alcohol on her breath when she comes to ask your advice. This has happened on more than one occasion.

• Your manager has not been well and you find him bent over his desk in considerable pain. He asks you not to ring his wife as she will just worry.

• You are auditing the social club accounts and there is a major discrepancy between the income and expenses.

• Your eight-year-old child’s friend comes to stay the night and you find she has many welts and bruises on her arms and legs. Her mother says she was hurt at the playground.

Would you in all honesty act according to your values?

What are your values? Are they as clear as you think they are?

- Rerenga